If there is one thing we are all normal maybe a lack of money. No matter how much you make, you always feel like you want to do more. Every time you reach a certain level, somehow your costs increase and you feel like you are not doing enough. There are many reasons why some of us struggle financially while others do not but one of them is actually how we spend our money. In fact, most people have some spending spaces that end up poor even if they earn 6 cents. And to be honest, I've had some of these things in the past and when I finished them, financially my health improved a lot, I was able to manage my money better and save a lot of money. One of the main reasons why so many people suffer is actually the use of big money to gain the favor of others. They always need confirmation. Their self-esteem is directly affected by what people think of them. If you depend too much on other people, you end up buying things you don't need to please people who don't care about you. Take a moment to think about the things you bought because you wanted to impress people, I'm sure you could write a long list.
In particular, when your friends, for example, go to a bigger house or find a better car, you just feel like you're going back and you have to raise your game, otherwise "people will look down on you". And now ask yourself, 'How much would I have saved if I had not bought all that food! As emotional beings, we crave recognition and one of the easiest ways to do that and to buy whatever people like. If you let go of your insecurities, you will continue to waste money, they will continue to drag you back, remember, if you are not spiritually healthy, you will never be financially free, your insecurity will continue to pressure you to spend money if you saved money! If someone is going to give you a million dollars, you can blow it up in one day and go back to where you were yesterday.
Making money is really hard but spending money is the easiest thing in the world! Part of the reason why some people are rich is that they refrain from spending that money quickly and irresponsibly which separates them from the poor. The problem with us is that we have few needs but we do not have unlimited limits and when we run out of discipline and give in to our desires, we spend all the money we have worked so hard to make. Some people will say, what good is a website if it simply "blends in" with everything else out there? The problem is that what you are looking for is going to be a reverend, you will always want more, you will always want another girl, no matter how many girls you have dated. So the wisest thing to do here is to learn to enjoy the little money. A rewarding conversation over a cup of coffee with close friends is far more satisfying than spending a lot of money entertaining all night! The point is not to become a monk and throw away everything you have but rather get used to it. draw a clear line between your needs and your needs! And remember, the goal is not to look rich but to get rich!
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